That guy....

Addressed to girls: 

You meet a lot of guys in your life. You tend to like some of them, be friends with them and prefer to ignore some of the real weird ones. Most of the time we try to keep our relationships with friends and loved ones evenly balanced where both the responsibilities and the pleasures of the relationship , are equally shared. But humans do err. Sometimes, you don't give back in a relationship, what the other person actually deserves and I am here, going to talk about exactly such a guy...


That guy, who in spite of doing his best to make you happy, did not get back what he deserved from you. That guy who was by your side when even your best friends doubted you. That guy who came to pick you up on a chilly night, when you couldn’t find anything to get back home. Do you even know that he lied to, and later got scolded by, his parents for taking their car out at that hour? . For you! and he never even told you about this.

People used to talk filth about him. Things like how he is letting you use him for your benefit and how far he has gone for you. To some extent, they were right. He was the one who always at the receiving end in your friendship. All sacrifices were supposed to be made by him, which he used to do without any regret or whatsoever. He used to be there for you as soon as you called him. But never, for an instance, you even thought about doing something for him. But he never complained. He remained the same smiling and unconditionally caring friend to you. Making adjustments and making you happy, were two things he was very good at. But unfortunately both things, you never realized.

You told him about that new guy you met and how cool and smart you found him. He was worried. He knew the guy and he knew that you are on the wrong path. Tried to make you understand but you, you did not listen. Days passed. You talked to him about your boyfriend. What’s he like? What does he do? What do you like about him? And what irritates you the most about him? And he listened. Trust me on this, being at this position, for a guy is an epic humiliation. Still, he listened. He did not used to talk much on that topic, except of saying some single word phrases here  and there sporadically. May be, he loved you.

That day, when you were talking to him about the problems you were having with your boyfriend, he again tried to make you understand about your mistake. But, this time you reacted strongly. You said some sharp words to him. You stopped talking to him. You told your friends that he was trying to create misunderstandings between you and your boyfriend, when they enquired about what happened. You never became normal with him. He was taken aback. He was hurt. He went away from your life. You did not care. Days passed. You slowly and gradually came to know about the reality about your guy. He cheated on you. And you were numb, for weeks.

 For years, you did not hear from that friend. He was gone, so far away, that may be you won’t be able to find him again in this life. Let me tell you that wherever he is, he still cares for your well being, though being passive. May God bless you!!